Your in your way of becoming a constant cheater… if you don’t stop it. There will always be opportunities to cheat knocking on your door and since you done it once, you’ll probably do it again, and before you know it you got lots of lovers.

I think it is best to tell your wife about it. It would be difficult but honesty and your wife’s help is required if you want to stop cheating.

After all your a man! Take the initiative! Letting others give you what you want is so unmanly. I wonder if Emma is thought of it too. You are too timid, man, and let others do things for you. It reeks of masculine weakness and only going to wreck your life.

Wince you don’t like to hurt your wife, put a complete stop on your affair. Cut all connections from Emma: cel#, email, meeting places etc. and concentrate your efforts to your wife’s relationship.

I really wonder why people are afraid of telling their partners about their fantasies. If you ask me, having a wife is a great way to fulfill these. Imagine, to have a partner you could tell and share anything with openly. You and your partner could do anything. Well almost as long as its not something like drugs, or murder or something like that, wearing something fetish is alright after sometime after all its only for the two of you. Imagine how spicy your sex life will be with all those fantasies the two of you have.

If your husband is taking you for granted you should do something about it. Its very easy to take anyone for granted and I’m sure you take your husband for granted too. The problem is the lack of effort on both part. You should talk about it and ask help.

Continue your sinfully fun journey in your own peril. There something they say about playing with the Devil.

So one day, you are going to hurt her and it will hurt bad, very bad.

Are you willing to risk your relationship?

But then saying these without offering solutions is not going to solve your problems. One thing about relationship is that it requires work.

So your wife don’t like to have sex with you. Instead of blaming her, ask why? You can’t solve a problem without knowing the reason. Its like taking ibuprofen, to relieve headache when you have brain cancer. Not only does it not solve the problem long term, it actually worsens long term.

So ask why does she have such low libido. Ask her why and find out. There could be various reasons:

-she is stressed when you ask her to have sex. First make her relax: massage her, pamper her, do anything for her until she is not stressed anymore. It also helps when you give her time to have fun and relax.

-she does not feel loved. Well maybe you are not expressive enough when you have sex, so express you’re love before, while and after sex. Cuddle her, say you love her, express your love with your body and eyes.

-she is cheating you! Oh my god, oh my god! She is having someone that she feels is better than you now isn’t that ironic. Better resolve it quick.

This affair of yours is a very big problem. Stop it now before it becomes a very great to to handle anymore. You’ll regret it.

Still laughing…

It is without a doubt morally wrong to have an affair with a married man, I know this, I was taught this.

…but it does not stop you from thinking about it.

I’m a 19 year old woman, a virgin, I’ve never once been kissed or have even been out on a date with a man- not because I’m ugly or horribly scarred, [I am quite pretty] It is because I’m a recluse and I work from home. Because of that, It is rare that I am on the receiving end of male attention.

I am not twisted enough to get off from the idea of “-fucking some other woman’s husband” and I do not love this man, I don’t even want mutual fun. I am simply at my lowest right now, my brother is terminally ill, my father does not have much time left either. There is so much drama going around the only thing I want is to be held, comforted, distracted.

So I have known both him and his wife since I was 15, the husband has always had a very flirty personality and I think it was smart of me to keep wary of him for the past four years and keep as little contact as possible with him. I sensed he was trouble then and I sense it now.

But lately he has been talking to me more often,his marriage is really in the pits, apparently there is no intimacy, they get into fights over it and he seems very confused and depressed.

He has started saying things like “what she doesn’t know won’t hurt her” I instantly think that that is the, stupidest, sleaziest line ever–but the more he says those types of things, the more appealing it is to me?

So I need advice, I either listen to what he says, and go into something that I KNOW I’ll regret later…

OR I tell his wife the truth about him. If I did tell her, it would surely destroy what is left of their marriage, as would me having an affair with him if she found out. And I’m certain that she would, because Karma IS a bitch. And I should know better than to fuck with a force like that, much less another woman’s husband. But the thought is there, and it is tempting.

So would it be better to not tell her about him? I don’t know what to do…

[Fake name, spare email address for privacy]

I pity your husband. Too bad for children having a mother lacking of morality. What will you teach your children. The moslem people have all the reasons to accuse so-called Christians–immoral people. Christianity should have set the high moral standards but sad to say, Christians have copied the life-style of those who don’t believe in God and who do these things with liberty and freedom of conscience. After all, in their minds there is no God to be accountable to.

Your family is middle class; thanks to your hard-working husband. He is your security. It’s nice to fool around with other men who would not commit themselves to you other than give you the pleasure of sex. But you always have a husband as your security. Think well, there is no secret that will not be revealed. You better repent and tell your husband what you have done if you love and respect him. Both of you should get counselling so that he will know where he had failed you. If your husband can forgive you, then renew your marriage vows. That way, you can redeem yourself from ignominous shame, pain, and guilt if ever your husband finds out your illicit affairs.

Pray to God for forgiveness and ask Him to prepare your husband of the consequences of your acts. Remember, if there is no repentance, there is no forgiveness. And if there is no repentance, your conscience is stiffled, you will continue going down the road of destruction, losing your husband who loves you, your home, the respect of your children, and the people who knows you. Without repentance, you will go down in your life’s journey as a promiscous, adulterous wife.